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1/1/19 Tuesday TMI- posted on Tuesday!

Welcome 2019!

1. Daily rituals. Do you have any that you will abandon in the new year? Will you begin new daily rituals? If yes, what?

The only thing I'll abandon is not taking the time to pick up when i get home and one thing i want to add is taking the time to journal. Even on my phone in the morning, before i start work. I also want to start a daily dance workout.πŸ’


2. What significant relationship improved the most? Probably the ones with my mom and brother.- not to mention our landlord. 


3. What relationship in your life deteriorated?

The one with my sister in law


4. What do you wish you had done more of in 2018? How do you plan on doing more of that in 2019?

I wish i had journaled more and made more time to chill when i get home and also kept up with the dance routine i wanted to do. In 2019 I am going to start putting music on either in the morning and dancing or when i get home at night. 


5. What important person in your life needs more of your time? Will you give it? I need more of my time! I will totally give itπŸŒˆπŸ¦„πŸ’πŸ˜Ž


Bonus: How can you redesign your evenings to bring more restful “you” time to the end of your day? 

I can keep things picked up so i don't have that much to do when i get home after work. 

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