What im starting to realize is that even if you talk to someone occasionally for advice, and this is someone who you were close to when you worked together and its not so much the case anymore. Im realizing that you can't expect people to do the same thing and be the same person they were awhile ago. Its just like you can't expect a response from someone wh3n you know that it will just make you more frustrated in the long run. A lot of my frustrations with other people come from my ecpectations and all that does is stress me out. One thing that was told to me was that people are going to be who they are and that is so true. I just didn't realize it until i switched jobs and saw the same crap going on...